4TH HOUSE: MY PRIVATE LIFE IS MY PRIVATE LIFE

I find it funny when I see people trying to make themselves known and yet tell the public that their privates are off limits. This is absolutely absurd and senseless because this is just simple math. An average person doesn’t need to sacrifice their private lives for their public lives but since you went public you can’t expect to have the same life as you use to have. It is no wonder that those celebrities who have this deluded polarity of believing they can still have their private lives private ended up not having a private life at all, couple divorce and some ended up in rehab.

No one can live a schizophrenic life with having a public persona from your private persona. That’s effing absurd. Who you are to your core is who you would become in the face of the public, period. I don’t think you need a PHD to realize that. The public will always want to know about the people they look up to because that’s how it is, just like how you want to know what you have that you can offer to the world. That’s why, I believe that if you are an artist or someone who expresses himself on public, full disclosure is a must. Failures, mistakes, name it, give it to the world and let the world think what they want to think. It’s their right. And it is your right to live in harmony within yourself.  And before you know it, the world doesn’t really give a shit. What the public wants to hear or to know is how are you able to do the things that you do. We all wonder at some point and consider the potentials we see in others could be our own too. That’s how the public works, people. You share your art, but it isn’t the art that they actually want, but you. What you’ve become so far.

The 4^th house shows that we are, privately. If you are a creative person, then create. If you are a healer, then heal. In the fourth house, we see what we can offer to the world or our society or to the 10^th house of achievements. While the tenth house shows the public and its reception towards we ‘create.’ The 4^th house shows our reaction or perception towards what we create.

All houses are of importance to our self development, each is dependent with another and there’s no separation but I believe that the fourth house is what keep us bind together. It is where we come home to after giving ourselves to others to fulfill some purpose whatsoever. It is where all the other aspects of our lives revolve around. Leo in the 4^th house sits on his throne and creates anything he can while watching everything revolves around him. It sheds light to every house it touches. A cancer here nurtures all other aspects of itself, grasping its memory.

The fourth house is where we go when we are about to transform or to die. Here, we come face to face with ourselves before we come face to face with the other (8^th House) or with our creator (12^th house).